Turns out this is very much how almost all high performing people are... I've at least finally come to this realization to have a little bit Less self loathing from many relationships blowing up or fizzling out or people thinking that I am the egotistical narcissist problem lol.

But more recently I am now starting the path of trying to figure out how to better interface and work together with other alpha type, We are slightly egotistical, but a good thing. So we need to learn how to curb and control that better, high performing type people...

I'm very much sick of people looking for advice, consultation, and then saying they're just gonna do what they thought was the best way or their own idea from something I recommend Personal and business lol. But the problem is always "you" in a situation, So that just means I need to study and work from successful people in the past at this kind of a high performing people level, personal or business, and figure out how to better present myself with my tone and words and nonverbal communication to hopefully succeed in better holding these Relationships that I mostly care about.

The high performers are the ones that give a **** and do things, and as I get older and wiser, I find it extremely more difficult to keep relationships with simpletons.

Yes, offense to simpletons, No offense to the ones that just are simple by they have no other choice or ability, but the ones that choose to be weak and uneducated. I am not saying no offense to because I believe that that is what erodes the ability for all of us to give each other the benefit of doubt.

Working with a new friend, High performing type guy, but stumbling and again starting out at the bottom, gave me a nice little insight nugget and believes that we are able to start this relationship and get along even though we're both very strong minded people because we're both doing a very good job at giving the other the benefit of the doubt.

So, like you say, when the relationships come back, I very often wonder. But yes, I do think that it's because they realize this kind of thing. They realize that other people are simpletons and life sucks when you're a intellectual high performer type person dealing with regular simpletons that are not going anywhere, not helping you get better and push harder and be motivated and inspired to have some friendly competition in life.! Not helping be your back board to solve your life, work, children, family, or business type struggles in life.

This aligns with my idea of trying to bring back neighborhoodism, which now with Internet we have a bigger neighborhood, say, But I very much believe that having close friendships was a good talk therapy that helped a lot of people through life that we simply do not have very easily or much at all anymore.

Which is why I love coming on to posts like this, because you're trying to vent. This concept and your way I feel, and so I would love to add on Ducky!But this one does get me a bit tricky, because it does make me wanna say not my problem, I'm actually pretty awesome. And you're the one that's projecting your insecurities of narcissism and lack of efforts and. Lack of production in your life, So you're trying to hold me down so that you feel better because now we're on a lower equal level. So **** that!

But at the same time, we need to be aware and curb that a little bit and try to work with the people that are quote lower spot in our world life to try and pull them up to where we're at so we can all play together in a more educated Life struggles and getting along, giving each other the benefit of the doubt type community and type world!

Hope things are well! Woop woop!